Usually it’s clear to me when I should mind my own business or the rare instances when I should get involved.
But this is something I’m unsure about. I don’t know why I care as much as I do. I don’t know you all that well. But if it was me, I’d want to know.
I think you are about to make a major mistake.
If you knew a piece of information, you would be thinking differently. At least if I found that out, I would change my plans. Big time. But I don’t know you well enough to figure out if you’d want to know. Maybe you already know but just don’t care for whatever reason. Or maybe you wouldn’t be okay with it, but you’d just rather not know about it. Some people feel that “ignorance is bliss” and maybe you’re one of them. So there is the possibility that if I did tell you, it would be doing more harm than good.
And I’m not the only one who knows. But no one is saying anything, even the people who do know you a lot better. So I’m just going to assume that means they’ve decided you wouldn’t want to know. I hope, for your sake, that my assumption is correct.